This is just a little advice on what you can to when you are not dating anyone, but still want a better chance at getting that special someone next time around. I also feel that this will help you to be happy, be productive, and feel better about yourself, and the world around you. This will also give you a jump start on your next relationship.
What I mean by being the whole package, I am talking about 4 main areas in your life.
1. Physical - Don't get worried yet, but working out is a great way to stay in shape, and feel healthy. When you work out, you will find that your stress will decrease, your mood will change, and you will be physically fit. Working out is a good habit to be in anyway. You will find that your attitude will change, and you can be happier about life in general.
2. Spiritual - When your spirituality is in check, your mental state of being is better, your mood will change, and you will feel happier about your situation.
Putting God in control is one of the best attitudes you can have.3. Mental - Your mental health will get you a long way. The only person holding you back is yourself. Your mental health will determine a lot of your actions, and your mood.
4. Social - Once you have worked on the other three, you will be ready for the 4th. Social life is your key to dating, the more people you meet, the more you will date. I am convinced that all 4 of these arias are connected, and working on all 4 will make you a happier person in general, and you will be a better "all around package." Working on this will also help improve your mood, and help you be an all around better person!
If I can offer some other advice, I would suggest to you to live a full and abundant life. Seek to further your education, whatever that may be, be the best at it! Work hard and be the best that you can. Improve your talents. This can help you in ways that are unexpected, but will be useful to you at some point. Don't sell yourself short. You have a good understanding of what your potential can be, so shoot for the stars! Don't let things get in the way of your relationship with the one you love. Material things are only objects, they can be replaced, but your relationships can't. Serve others and find joy in doing it. You can never be in a bad mood when you are serving other people. Service to others will get you a lot further in life than anything else.
Last, Don't give up! Don't stop dating until you find that special someone! If things in your life are not going your way, you may just have to take things into your own hands. Ask out someone you never thought would go out with you. Things work out, but remember, God helps those who help themselves!
What to Do When You're Not Dating